Friday, November 7, 2014

Is Respect Lost?

The inappropriate language and dress, faces buried in a phone or ears plugged with earphones. Do they notice or even care for the people walking around them? 
I recently learned the answer, as I stood in line at the local market.  Although my mind had recently been filled with stories and first-hand accounts of “children” using obscene language, being disrespectful, stealing, lying, alcohol abuse and even striking an adult, I felt a renewed spirit in me while standing in that store. 
In front of me, at the local market, was an elderly lady using what seemed to be a food benefits card.   What caught my attention was not the card, but the young lady behind the counter.  The elderly lady had apparently purchased some items not covered by the card and had to reach in her wallet for additional money.  I could see the embarrassment on her face, or maybe I was misjudging and it was sheer frustration.  Whichever the case, the sweet young lady was being very patient.  She then was joined by a kind young man saying “It’s ok mam, just press that button and I can get that for you”! 
My recollection of all the negativity of last few days seemed to vanish in that moment. My renewed spirit spurted our, “what a blessing you two are and that is why we love our community and shopping local”, to which the elderly lady replied, I agree these young people have to keep us old people straight!”

So, behind what seems to be all that is wrong is a beautiful piece of art, perfectly shaped by a master workman  and yes there is still respect going on!