Tuesday, March 1, 2016

Man Named Bubble Gum

I’m always amazed how teaching financial education is made simplest when it has a face.  While this blog’s theme is “Life enhanced through financial education” also known as LEFTe ™, I was reminded recently that giving must be talked about when teaching financial education.

There was no better picture of this than my sweet mother-in-law. This lady raised five boys, ran a business and recognized the need to purchase property in the 60’s. However, I often heard the story from my husband and his brothers how their mother would on a regular basis set out to take their father his lunch and would show up empty handed.  Her usual response was, “I saw someone that needed it more than you Jimmy, and sometimes that someone’s name was “Bubble Gum”.  

This week while teaching a budgeting class to a group of seniors, the statement was made that charity was indeed a budgeting item for them to consider.  Several students questioned, “If this was something they had to do?” It also appeared when expense seemed to be more than the income, a few students thought of cutting charity first.  I found myself having a hard time justifying their need for a cellphone over giving to their local Church or Charity.  Now, while I firmly believe in tithing to my local Church, it seemed that others attitude of giving was based on individuals not necessity.


As I attended Church that night, the message seemed to verify my thought process that investing in others has to be just as much a part of our financial footprint as saving for a rainy day. Then my husband leaned over and said, “Remember the bicycle” as if to read my thoughts! As I smiled, I recalled attending his sweet mother’s visitation prior to her funeral. Many spoke of the business that she and my father-in-law had owned as well as her personality full of character. However, most recalled her kindness to those less fortunate and the impact she had made on them.  As we left the packed chapel, I noticed a man on a bicycle right outside the door.  I said to my husband, “who is that”?  He simply replied, “that’s Bubble Gum”.